For those who celebrate Christmas, the tradition of gift-giving may leave their bank accounts as empty as the hole in the Grinch’s heart. The holidays bring up touchy subjects like money, obligation, and the true meaning of “the Spirit of Christmas”, but copious spending may not be the answer.
“September’s my birthday month so I’m already receiving money, so sometimes I use that money for gifts,” senior Grace Humphreys said. For Humphreys, saving for the holidays starts three months before Christmas. She might spend up to $200 for family members and $100 for friends.
“You can tell how much I care about someone by how much I spend on them,” senior Levi Sims laughed. Sims confessed that he doesn’t save for gifts; instead, he uses that month’s lunch money, usually around $150, or forgets about gifts in general.
Senior Joseph Burton disagrees with selective spending. “I don’t think the value of the gift depends on the price. It’s really just what I think through my heart that they would like. It’s not so much how much I like them, just whether what they like is more expensive.”
Burton says the amount he’s willing to spend depends on whether he’s gotten his paycheck. He regularly frequents thrift stores, finding unique and affordable items often under $20.
While the interviewees confessed they feel obligated to give gifts, they would not be offended if they didn’t receive any.
“Giving a gift doesn’t mean you have to receive one,” Burton said. A homemade gift can be a cheaper and more meaningful gesture. Paintings, cards, and activities are sentimental things with large value.
“I appreciate giving homemade gifts more, but I enjoy receiving bought,” Humphreys admitted.
“When I get older I’ll probably appreciate homemade gifts because it shows they put in effort,” Sims said.
For Sims, “The Spirit of Christmas” is deeply ingrained with presents. “That’s baseline Christmas. As a kid, that’s what you’re excited for. You don’t really care about Jesus’ birthday or nothing, you care about getting gifts and stuff.”
Humphreys and Burton disagree, saying family traditions are the highlight of the holiday season. Burton especially recognizes the religious value of the birth of Jesus Christ.
Sims agrees that while gifts are a fun pastime, they are not what constitutes “the Spirit of Christmas.” When giving a gift, it’s the thought that counts. Instead of breaking the bank for everybody you know, a gesture of appreciation may be just as nice.
